Others Remembering Michael

I'm still so overwhelmed by the impact Michael made on so many people's lives. Most days I'm reminded by it when people share a memory about him with me. I already knew that he was an incredible human being with a generous soul and full heart; I do find comfort in knowing that others realize that fact as well and miss him.

The Bag Ladies have done a couple small tributes to him (and the other men the gay community has lost this past year, all at such young ages). During the holiday fundraiser, a drag queen sang a song with pictures on the TVs that looked back at the past year. The last few images were ones of those we lost, including one of Michael. On Sunday, Cadillac Barbie did a special tribute during her inaugural disco brunch for those we've lost this year, including Michael. She sang Diana Ross's "Missing You", one of my favorites. I've actually listened to that song again and again since Michael's death. Michael and I had bartended at Pride the past two years, and he was a valued part of the community. The tears rolled during both performances, both out of missing him but also out of appreciation for people not forgetting him.

My sister shared a story with me today that touched my heart and brought tears to my eyes. She forwarded me an email from my almost 9-year-old nephew's teacher, which I'll share here:

"Independent work time tends to be difficult for Ethan.  This seems to be when he often loses his focus. Also, he was teary today.  When asked what was on his mind, he mentioned that it was "personal".  Later he came back to me and said he was upset about a death in your family.  He has brought up a friend of the family... a younger man who lived in Indy and was a friend of his uncle's.  I'm sorry I can't recall his name.  This matter has come up with Ethan 3-4 times throughout the year.  It seems to be on his mind from time to time in class.  Just FYI."

 Michael was such a great man.